When a loved one or family member is diagnosed, the effects of Alzheimers on the family can be overwhelming. Out of the approximate four million sufferers of the disease, 70% live at home. This puts a large responsibility on the caring of the patient, and can trigger a range of emotions in you. Conflicts are common, and the mental, emotional and physical effects of Alzheimers care, and this great burden should not be overlooked. The effects of Alzheimers can actually put, not only the patient, but the caregiver at risk.
Up to 50% of caregivers (who are often referred to as having a “36-hour day) report experiencing depression, and more than 80% report experiencing high levels of stress, which can be damaging to the caregiver’s health, and the patient’s. The effects of Alzheimers disease on family and caregivers can often be ignored, leading to burn-out, self-neglect and unfortunately, patient neglect. Your own health should be your most important concern. If you experience symptoms of depression, or increased stress for more than 2 weeks, try and make an attempt to eat right, rest, exercise and find someone to talk to. Or talk to your doctor for advice about treating your symptoms, or finding a senior centre or support group.
Also, the effects of Alzheimers on the family can lead to increased conflict within the household. To minimize these issues, try and address them as a group, i.e. share responsibility, meet regularily and be honest with one another. Try not to let the effects of Alzheimers burden your lives more than it has to – engage in tasks that you are comfortable with, and that you feel will benefit the patient and your home life the most.
It’s true that the effects of Alzheimers on families can create major stress, conflict and emotional issues, but work together – stay strong as a family and enjoy your time together as much as possible.